Finally, a dating program that goes deeper than surface-level advice and helps you change the patterns actually keeping you stuck.
The man you become changes everything.
The man you become changes everything.
Finally, a dating program that goes deeper than surface-level advice and helps you change the patterns actually keeping you stuck.
Feel confident without pretending
Date with
less drama
less drama
Become relationship
ready
ready
Inside Bachelor to Boyfriend, you'll get everything you need to build confidence, overcome the patterns keeping you stuck, and approach dating with more self-trust, emotional resilience, and ease.
Imagine if...
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There was a way to build real confidence with women without pretending to be someone you're not...
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You could finally trust yourself around women instead of constantly questioning whether you're saying or doing the "right" thing...
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You could go on dates feeling more grounded, present, curious, and emotionally steady instead of anxious and in your head...
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You could stop organizing your life around fear of rejection and start moving toward the kind of relationship you genuinely want...
ALL of that is possible inside Bachelor to Boyfriend.
What IS Bachelor to Boyfriend?
What IS Bachelor to Boyfriend?
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Bachelor to Boyfriend is a 12-week coaching program that helps men overcome anxiety, stop overthinking, and build genuine confidence with women.
Step-by-step, I'll teach you how you can coach yourself through any dating or intimate moment using a proven method developed through years of coaching men through the exact challenges you're facing.
Step-by-step, I'll teach you how you can coach yourself through any dating or intimate moment using a proven method developed through years of coaching men through the exact challenges you're facing.
Tell me if this sounds like you...
Tell me if this sounds like you...
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You want a loving relationship.
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You need more than surface-level advice. The things you've tried haven't been enough.
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You need a way to stop spiraling, second guessing yourself, and turning every interaction into a critique of your worth.
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You have too much information and not enough momentum.
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You're tired of dating seeming mysteriously harder for you than it should be.
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You 're exhausted from feeling like every date, text, or moment of uncertainty is a high-stakes emotional event.
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You wish there was a clear path to dating that feels simple, lighter, and less emotionally draining.
Your brain was not designed for modern dating.
Your brain was not designed for modern dating.
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There's a reason why every rejection feels like you're going to die, and it's not because there is something wrong with you. The very things your brain wants you to do (stay safe! don't put in any effort! seek immediate pleasure!) are the opposite of what creates success in love.
You can cultivate confidence and ease in less time than you think. You just need tools like self awareness, emotional regulation, and the ability to coach yourself on the spot in order to show up in a different way.
Let's retrain your brain.
Let's retrain your brain.
Bachelor to Boyfriend is right for you if...
Bachelor to Boyfriend is right for you if...
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You are functional as an adult and just want greater confidence and resilience in this area of your life.
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You've read the books, watched the YouTube videos, listened to the podcasts, and/or maybe gone to therapy, but still struggle to consistently apply it when dating becomes emotionally vulnerable or uncertain.
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You are intelligent, thoughtful, and self-aware, but dating still feels disproportionately stressful, confusing, or emotionally loaded.
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You want to stop treating dating like a performance, test, or game and actually enjoy it.
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You want a clear, structured process that helps you build real confidence, momentum, and become more relationship-ready in just 12 weeks.
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You are ready to finally go after what you want, even if you’re still not sure you believe it’s possible.
Bachelor to Boyfriend is not ideal for you if...
Bachelor to Boyfriend is not ideal for you if...
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You want someone to tell you what to do. Quick fix dating advice won’t help you see how capable, strong, and resilient you truly are.
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You are looking for guidance on pick up lines or sleazy techniques.
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You want to talk about how awful your life is but don't want to take action to improve it.
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You aren’t willing to make yourself a priority.
To be clear, you do not need to already feel confident, perfect, or "good at dating" to be a good fit for Bachelor to Boyfriend.
But you do need a genuine willingness to stop hiding, take emotional risks, and actively participate in creating the kind of relationship you want.
But you do need a genuine willingness to stop hiding, take emotional risks, and actively participate in creating the kind of relationship you want.
Bachelor to Boyfriend is right for you if...
Bachelor to Boyfriend is right for you if...
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You are functional as an adult and just want greater confidence and resilience in this area of your life.
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You've read the books, watched the YouTube videos, listened to the podcasts, and/or maybe gone to therapy, but still struggle to consistently apply it when dating becomes emotionally vulnerable or uncertain.
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You are intelligent, thoughtful, and self-aware, but dating still feels disproportionately stressful, confusing, or emotionally loaded.
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You want to stop treating dating like a performance, test, or game and actually enjoy it.
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You want a clear, structured process that helps you build real confidence, momentum, and become more relationship-ready in just 12 weeks.
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You are ready to finally go after what you want, even if you’re still not sure you believe it’s possible.
Bachelor to Boyfriend is not ideal for you if...
Bachelor to Boyfriend is not ideal for you if...
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You want someone to tell you what to do. Quick fix dating advice won’t help you see how capable, strong, and resilient you truly are.
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You are looking for guidance on pick up lines or sleazy techniques.
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You want to talk about how awful your life is but don't want to take action to improve it.
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You aren’t willing to make yourself a priority.
To be clear, you do not need to already feel confident, perfect, or "good at dating" to be a good fit for Bachelor to Boyfriend.
But you do need a genuine willingness to stop hiding, take emotional risks, and actively participate in creating the kind of relationship you want.
But you do need a genuine willingness to stop hiding, take emotional risks, and actively participate in creating the kind of relationship you want.
Bachelor to Boyfriend
is ideal for three types of men..
Bachelor to Boyfriend
is ideal for three types of men..
is ideal for three types of men..
Hidden Romantic
Hidden Romantic
You genuinely want love, connection, partnership and emotional intimacy, but dating may not have come easily or naturally to you.
Maybe part of you avoided expressing interest because you were afraid of making women feel uncomfortable. So you became cautious, self-conscious, overly analytical, or quietly hidden.
The good news? Your inexperience does not mean you are broken or incapable of connection. Bachelor to Boyfriend will help you express interest with integrity and create real momentum without pretending to be someone you're not.
Maybe part of you avoided expressing interest because you were afraid of making women feel uncomfortable. So you became cautious, self-conscious, overly analytical, or quietly hidden.
The good news? Your inexperience does not mean you are broken or incapable of connection. Bachelor to Boyfriend will help you express interest with integrity and create real momentum without pretending to be someone you're not.
The Broken-Hearted
The Broken-Hearted
You've been through rejection, betrayal, divorce or relationships that slowly chipped away at your confidence and trust in yourself. Part of you still deeply wants love, but another part is terrified of getting hurt again.
One of the most powerful things that happens inside Bachelor to Boyfriend is that you being seeing your past differently- not as proof that you should never risk your heart again, but as proof that you are far more resilient, courageous and emotionally capable than you know.
This program helps you stop letting old pain define your future.
One of the most powerful things that happens inside Bachelor to Boyfriend is that you being seeing your past differently- not as proof that you should never risk your heart again, but as proof that you are far more resilient, courageous and emotionally capable than you know.
This program helps you stop letting old pain define your future.
Busy Professional
Busy Professional
From the outside, your life looks solid. You've built a stable and comfortable life.
But privately, there's a growing awareness that love and connection have not unfolded in the way you thought they would. Perhaps you were hiding behind the busy-ness of work, or perhaps you were just focused on other things, hoping a relationship would "happen naturally."
You are now willing to stop waiting for "someday" to come and make creating a relationship a real priority. Because deep down you know you don't just want a successful life. You want someone to share it with.
But privately, there's a growing awareness that love and connection have not unfolded in the way you thought they would. Perhaps you were hiding behind the busy-ness of work, or perhaps you were just focused on other things, hoping a relationship would "happen naturally."
You are now willing to stop waiting for "someday" to come and make creating a relationship a real priority. Because deep down you know you don't just want a successful life. You want someone to share it with.
READY TO STOP PLAYING SMALL?
READY TO STOP PLAYING SMALL?
Apply to see how Bachelor to Boyfriend can help you. There's no commitment and it only takes a few minutes.
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I was nervous a lot of the time. I knew something was wrong about how I approached relationships, but didn't know what it was. I wanted to feel more secure with myself.
I'm a confident person otherwise, but in dating I would fake it. I never really felt confident. It was like I was split in two- the fake person on the outside and the person who was constantly worried on the inside.
Now I have zero of these issues.
Now when I am with someone I am not constantly worried about losing her.
Our work together helped me be more confident, authentic and present.
Before I was always strategizing, directing my every move when I was around women.
Now I am just in the experience, alive with another human.
I have so much more trust in myself and women than before. I'm not constantly second guessing myself.
The things I learned I can now take with me into the future. I now have a blueprint for navigating whatever issue there is- whether that's in a long term relationship or on a first date.
I don't think I ever would have figured this stuff out without Erika.
She had such an ability to make me feel comfortable, which was so important. The things I shared with her I would probably feel embarrassed to talk about with someone else. She was able to give me the nudge I needed in a way no one else ever could.
It's been over a year now and the things that we did in our sessions have had such an impact on me. I've shifted my mindset so much.
The things I learned with her have had an effect on my whole life. It's allowed me to be more myself in everything I do- with my family, with my friends, at work. It's not just in intimate relationships.
Dating will be different this time.
Dating will be different this time.
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Just imagine:
Being confident asking any woman out, regardless of how she'll respond.
Loving the life you live.
The thing you are most embarrassed about turning out to be a wonderful asset.
Dreaming bigger than you ever thought possible.
Rejection is no big deal.
Going after what you want and keeping the momentum going until you get it.
Being able to handle any emotion without needing to distract from it.
Dating feels easy.
Sex is fun.
You no longer worry about being alone.
Ready to take next steps?
Ready to take next steps?
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If you believe Bachelor to Boyfriend would be a good fit for you, I encourage you to apply! It takes just a few minutes.
Step 1:
Step 1:
Click here to fill out the application. Please be as detailed as possible with your answers—this is your chance to make a great first impression! You'll get to share your goals and plans, so feel free to take your time with this part. Your answers will help us determine if Bachelor to Boyfriend is a great fit for your needs- you'll get our honest answer!
Step 2:
Step 2:
If you seem like a good fit for this program, the next step is the info session. a team member will reach out within 48 hours and send you a video that walks you through the Bachelor to Boyfriend Framework. This is your opportunity to learn more and decide if Bachelor to Boyfriend is right for you.
Step 3:
Step 3:
After the video session, you'll receive the next steps from my team, should you choose to enroll. (I hope you will!)
Note: There is nothing to decide now and no commitment to enroll.
If you are unsure whether or not you should apply, please do!
If you are unsure whether or not you should apply, please do!
Wait, I get to watch an info session first?
Wait, I get to watch an info session first?
If your application is approved, you'll be invited to attend a
Bachelor to Boyfriend info session. At the session, I'll walk you through
the Inner Game Framework.
Bachelor to Boyfriend info session. At the session, I'll walk you through
the Inner Game Framework.
Inside the info session I'm sharing:
- The 5-Step Inner Game Framework I use (and my clients use) to build confidence, stop overthinking, and create real momentum with women.
- The 6 biggest myths keeping intelligent, relationship-minded men stuck in anxiety, avoidance and self-doubt when it comes to dating.
- Why you DON'T need good looks or the "perfect" dating strategy to create meaningful connection—and what really matters instead.
- How to choose the version of Bachelor to Boyfriend that best fits your goals, learning style, budget, and desired level of support.
- The steps you'll follow inside Bachelor to Boyfriend to become more grounded, emotionally resilient, and relationship-ready in just 12 weeks.
At the end of the info session, you'll receive the next steps to become a member of Bachelor to Boyfriend. There is nothing to decide now.
To get started, fill out the application below.
To get started, fill out the application below.
Hi! I'm Erika Davian.
Hi! I'm Erika Davian.
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I'm a dating and intimacy coach for men who helps thoughtful, relationship-minded men build confidence, and stop overthinking so they can finally build the healthy, loving relationship they've wanted for years.
I'm trained in both coaching and a form of sex therapy. Since 2018, I've worked closely with men around dating, intimacy, confidence, and relationships. Before that, I was a school teacher; that's why I love taking things that seem abstract and hard to learn into easy, digestible pieces.
Few things make me happier than getting the "I went on my first date!" or "We're getting married!" messages from past clients. My heart feels so full.
I'm trained in both coaching and a form of sex therapy. Since 2018, I've worked closely with men around dating, intimacy, confidence, and relationships. Before that, I was a school teacher; that's why I love taking things that seem abstract and hard to learn into easy, digestible pieces.
Few things make me happier than getting the "I went on my first date!" or "We're getting married!" messages from past clients. My heart feels so full.
Why I created Bachelor to Boyfriend
Why I created Bachelor to Boyfriend
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After years of rejection, frustration, and disappointment, I started to realize that my problems with dating were not just with dating itself—the patterns were, after all, coming from within me.
I wanted all my single friends to do the course, and some did, finding their own ways to great partners.
But the course I did was designed for women, not men.
I wanted to recommend something similar for my guy friends, but there wasn't one.
Instead what I found were pick up artist trainings, surface-level advice, and honestly, some pretty toxic ideas about women and the purpose of dating.
So I set out to create a course that would help men truly feel more emotionally resilient and confident from the inside out, not just by faking it until they make it.
I believe there are too many good men with a lot of love to give sitting on the sidelines.
I also believe that dating shouldn't feel so hard.
I now know deep down that it doesn't have to be.
I wanted all my single friends to do the course, and some did, finding their own ways to great partners.
But the course I did was designed for women, not men.
I wanted to recommend something similar for my guy friends, but there wasn't one.
Instead what I found were pick up artist trainings, surface-level advice, and honestly, some pretty toxic ideas about women and the purpose of dating.
So I set out to create a course that would help men truly feel more emotionally resilient and confident from the inside out, not just by faking it until they make it.
I believe there are too many good men with a lot of love to give sitting on the sidelines.
I also believe that dating shouldn't feel so hard.
I now know deep down that it doesn't have to be.
“It doesn’t matter what you say or do—it matters what you’re thinking when you say or do it.”
“It doesn’t matter what you say or do—it matters what you’re thinking when you say or do it.”
—Stacey Boehman
The truth is, the exact things you say and do around a woman aren't nearly as important as you think. This is because what you do on the outside doesn’t matter if you have a crappy story about yourself on the inside.
Your best clothes, the perfect pick up line, and all the dating advice in the world can’t make up for a poorly managed mind. This program teaches you the skills of self awareness, emotional regulation, and thoughtwork so you can coach yourself on the spot when you need it most.
“It doesn’t matter what you say or do—it matters what you’re thinking when you say or do it.”
“It doesn’t matter what you say or do—it matters what you’re thinking when you say or do it.”
—Stacey Boehman
The truth is, the exact things you say and do around a woman aren't nearly as important as you think. This is because what you do on the outside doesn’t matter if you have a crappy story about yourself on the inside.
Your best clothes, the perfect pick up line, and all the dating advice in the world can’t make up for a poorly managed mind.
This program teaches you the skills of self awareness, emotional regulation, and thoughtwork so you can coach yourself on the spot when you need it most.
This is about so much more than getting a girlfriend or being good in bed.
This is about so much more than getting a girlfriend or being good in bed.
HERE IS WHAT'S POSSIBLE WITH MY HELP:
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You take massive action towards the relationship you want, rather than passively hoping it will happen.
You are free from a fear of rejection. You know you can handle it.
You stop over-thinking and over-analyzing every interaction with a woman.
You learn to manage your mind so you can work with, rather than against yourself.
You show yourself that you are capable of more than you thought possible.
You have more fun and better connections with co-workers, friends, and family.
You waste less time on women who aren’t right for you and habits that distract you.
You have greater acceptance and compassion for yourself. You can feel big feelings without getting stuck in them.
You don't worry your peers are moving forward in their lives while yours stays the same.
You know that you are worthy of love and pleasure, no matter how long you’ve believed otherwise.
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I can't promise that this program is going to magically give you a partner at the end of 12 weeks because it didn't happen for me.
But if you feel that you're stuck in a cycle of frustration, I'm confident that this will help you break it.
Ready to take the next steps?
Ready to take the next steps?
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You have two options:
Continue spending years overthinking texts, avoiding vulnerability, waiting to "feel ready," and hoping confidence will somehow arrive before you take action...
OR, finally have a proven framework for breaking the patterns keeping you stuck so you can stop watching another summer, another holiday season, another year or decade wishing your dating life felt different.
Continue spending years overthinking texts, avoiding vulnerability, waiting to "feel ready," and hoping confidence will somehow arrive before you take action...
OR, finally have a proven framework for breaking the patterns keeping you stuck so you can stop watching another summer, another holiday season, another year or decade wishing your dating life felt different.
Still not sure?
Still not sure?
I totally get it. I thought for the longest time that coaching was silly and unnecessary— and one of my best friends has been a successful career coach for years!
Before I tried coaching, I had all kinds of thoughts like:
“I can do it on my own.”
“There are YouTube videos for this.”
“My problem is unique. She won’t understand.”
If any of these sound like your mind right now, it makes sense. Your brain is just trying to keep you safe and comfortable.
But safe and comfortable do not lead to growth.
And growth is what is necessary to take you from the man you are today to the man you are becoming.
Still not sure?
Still not sure?
I totally get it. I thought for the longest time that coaching was silly and unnecessary— and one of my best friends has been a successful career coach for years!
Before I tried coaching, I had all kinds of thoughts like:
“I can do it on my own.”
“There are YouTube videos for this.”
“My problem is unique. She won’t understand.”
If any of these sound like your mind right now, it makes sense. Your brain is just trying to keep you safe and comfortable.
But safe and comfortable do not lead to growth.
And growth is what is necessary to take you from the man you are today to the man you are becoming.
DON'T SPEND ANOTHER DECADE FIGURING THIS STUFF OUT.
DON'T SPEND ANOTHER DECADE FIGURING THIS STUFF OUT.
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The only decision to make now is whether or not you want to apply.
If it seems like a good fit, you'll have the opportunity to watch the info session and decide whether or not to enroll.
If it seems like a good fit, you'll have the opportunity to watch the info session and decide whether or not to enroll.
I welcome men of all races, cultural backgrounds, dating histories, body types, abilities, forms of neurodiversity, sexual orientations, relationship styles (monogamous, poly, etc.) in my coaching.
There is a place for you at the table.
There is a place for you at the table.
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